My wife loves it, she slips a hand down the back of my jeans most days to see what panties I have on. She has bought me loads from Shein, including my zip front PU dress and thigh high boots. she has suggested that spanking could be thing. I’ve never really fancied it but thought why not try. Tied to bed dressed whilst being flogged is amazing. she can go as hard as she wants and it feels great. We are both surprised she also likes it. Tried chastity and a magic wand that did not end well stay away from amazon cheap metal cages.